I realized this morning..and I will not discuss why I thought of it, that "they", our partners do not see what we see. They see what they love. So love what they see.


My guy friends at school say that I am the only woman they know that never, ever says that she feels or looks or is fat, or over weight or whatever. The reason for that is that I am amazed at what my body can do. And as long as I can be out there loving my sport, I do not care what the scale says.

You will get there, enjoy the journey, and let Ian love you the way you are.