What Veronica said.
You're telling us that what you look like is interfering with your bedroom time? turn the lights out then!

Your partner accepted you a long time ago, and it's not slowing him down, is it?
Start finding things about yourself that you do like. You're only going to get older, which is worse, you can't turn back the clock. You have to accept the things you cannot change, and change the things you can.
You're never going to be tall and slender.
You're never going to have a big nose like me.
you have a great compact body, and you have ALL the right stuff. Please appreciate it now while you still have it.