Thanks for the replies ladies.

I guess I didn't explain myself well enough before and there was some confusion. I'm not that good at being a "girl" and don't know all the wedding terminology. When I said elopement, I meant I envisioned just the two of us and some sort of licensed person to make it legal. Just the two of us because I didn't think anyone else would be able to afford it or be able to take the time off. We weren't concerned about no one seeing it as we will probably hire some videographre person so we can play the ceremony at the reception when we get back home.

I didn't realize that elopement meant "shhh it's a secret!"

Again, thanks for the info. We'll keep you posted on how it all turns out!

Jeni