Welcome to the board Dana - your story was most interesting to say the least! and I appreciate you asking if Jon could post.

Here is my only concern: by having Jon post regularly or semi-regularly it sets precedent. If Jon can post then other men should be able to post also and pretty soon we run the risk of losing a place that is truly for women only.
As the others have said, we've had some DHs/SOs pop in once in awhile and the occasional man asking about something for his DW or SO, I know we have some male lurkers and one of the moderators is male but he stays out of the picture. While the decision is up to the moderators , I would just like to say it's nice to know there is one place in my life that is completely, truly, and utterly female.

But Jon sounds like the perfect man (*cigh* the kind I keep hoping I'm gonna have someday) and you should go give him a hug and a kiss from me!!