After getting all your info and giving it some thought I decided to give the San Marco Aero a try. I get online and try to find a womens aero and I have had no luck. The few stores I found online that stocked the womens aero were out of stock. A few of the stores I checked have the mens and say there is a womens Aero but nobody seems to have them.

Actually I did find one but it was in Australia - good if I was back home but no good to me here in the States.

If you have any sites to suggest that would be great.