When to go to a funeral?

[Mr. Bloom]

I feel that I'm reacting more to the situation...and the elements that I identify with, than with the loss of him as a person, if that makes sense.

I KNOW exactly what you mean and I think that it's very important that you realize it. I think your conclusion is spot on for your circumstance and I applaud the thought and consideration that you gave to this.

I do applaud what squirell said, but it's hard to minister to someone you don't know.