Well, I've tried many, and I"m still searching... but getting a whole lot closer.

Some places offer a demo program. If you find one you love, that's more $ than you can swing, try an ad here on TE. Or e-bay. There are lots of folks who could not return a saddle they disliked that are happy to re-coup some $. One woman's trash is another woman's treasure.

Bontrager and Specialized make saddles in different widths. Specialized states that your riding position does affect what width you may like. Frankly, after trying many ladies saddles, I think the closest one I like is a mens. Just keep an open mind. Good Luck.