I counted to day - I am all over the place - anywhere from 15 - 19 totally depending on how hard I feel like kicking and how hard I kicked off the wall.

barely kicking I am at 19 w/o a wall kick, steady strong kick with a turn 14-15

I counted my breast stroke - I am at 11-12 for that and my time isn't much slower than a careful freestyle

I am glad you posted - it helps keep me aware (my coach tells me but I have little to compare to)