Quote Originally Posted by roadie gal View Post
...It took me this long to realize that you don't have to be madly in love every day. Some days you don't even have to like each other. If you treat each other with respect and gentleness and support each other then things will work out. And those days that you are madly in love are wonderful.
...very wise words.

combine the above with not taking things personally and you've got a bombproof recipe for a long, happy relationship. good luck!