but what if i just don't KNOW that it could be better. you all make me think i should go out and try 100 saddles. i know i know nothing about bikes, but i have to believe i would know if my butt didn't like my saddle, no?
You may suffer from a lack of innervation of your butt - and your butt could not like the saddle and you just don't realize.
However, I've noticed that when my bottom is not pleased with a saddle, it's very vocal about it.