Please share: Relationships, Engagement and Marriage

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Lastly, I read a quote once about marriage and about how you wouldn't disown a parent or grandparent because you "grew apart".

The point of it all is our relationship is important to each of us and we will do what it takes to nurture it. We also have the commitment to stay together. There is so much calmness in that.

WELL SAID TEIGYR!

All of our friends in AZ are now divorced. It's really sad. All of these couples waited a lot longer to have kids and always had more money than us when we were younger. We progressed as the years went on and now we are in a much better place than they are in many ways. I never would have predicted any of it.

Crankin, this happened to a lot of our friends too, friends we actually chose because they had long term marriages like ours, and we have watched; scandalized while one guy is now married to a pot smoking woman his daughter's age, and another, where the former wife is now out exploring her sexuality...
It's lonely out here! But It can be done, and it's nice to read stories like yours and Teigyr's and a couple others!!!

I think you need to be best friends with your partner.

BOY I AGREE!!

We have never had a fight.

(you mean like arguing, right?)
Uh, we haven't fought once this week
we fight a lot!

you should expect that if you date for 3 months before you get married.

but I wouldn't trade him or the life I've had with him for ANYTHING!