This thread rocks!

I was in a relationship with guy, I met in college, for 10 years. When we met I had very low self esteem and a negative outlook. I didnt want to get married and become a statistic. He and I had some things in common and we ended up buying a farm which was my dream. So after 10 years his mom asked if she made all the arrangements would we get married and at that point I figured we were committed. So we got married in 1999. Then I got really healthy inside and out and discovered we were in fact very different. We divorced 4 years later.

Since then I have had 2 relationships that were nice but just not it. I am really picky so I am probably limiting the playing field substantially. I would rather be alone than with a negative, pessimistic, unhealthy person.

Lately I have been thinking that I live in the wrong place to try and meet a happy like minded active, animal loving vegan!