That sucks!! But I'm glad you're back...
As far as the water bottle and generally getting comfortable on the bike, maybe practice some on the trainer. Learn the motion so you don't have to look.
What kind of bike are you riding? If it's a road bike, maybe go back to a hybrid or mountain for a while? Lower the saddle some, until you get more comfortable.
As far as balance exercises, what about bosu balls? I've heard of them, but haven't used them.
And maybe find someone other than your DH to ride with - at least until you feel more comfortable.
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