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  1. #1
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    Feb 2004
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    Wow, that Sooo sux

    I do most of my riding alone, and though it is usually on fairly well-travelled rail trails, there have been times (especially at dusk) when I have had a moment or two of the creepies. It bugs me that if I were male, that I would not be having too many of those personal safety thoughts.

    I try to comfort myself with the thought that potential rapists are lazy and would go for the easy targets - not be stalking 20 miles out on a rail trail in the middle of the state forest. ( at least I HOPE not )

  2. #2
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    Apr 2005
    Location
    Dallas, TX
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    That sounds so scary! Thank goodness you weren't hurt and your bikes were left alone!

    I think if I were going to travel on bike "alone"... or with another female... I would invest in handgun training and carry one with me, just in case.

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Location
    Santa Barbara
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    Sorry to hear this happened to you. It's tough getting over the intimidation you feel after an incident like this.
    I carry a pepper spray canister on my keychain, have thought about carrying it on the bike, if only for the occasional rowdy dog. It is a mixture of mace, pepper and fluorescent spray paint. Can be had at any gun shop. One thing to remember, you don't want to let them know you have it, just use it if need be. In other words, it doesn't work on intimidation factor like a gun does. I've never had to use it, but have been glad to have at least some form of defense with me.

  4. #4
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    Aug 2005
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    Stillwater, MN> which is just outside of St. Paul. We live in the St. Croix Rivervalley on 4 acres.
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    Red face Addendum

    Thanks for all your suggestions. The memory of this experience has jostled afew other ones back when I was doing alot of touring. But none as bad. But we encountered alot of finger gestures suggesting sex from red neck guys in trucks. Please don't construe this to mean that all guys in trucks are red necks but these looked like it. I was shocked. There was something about two women being out on the open road with not alot of other people around that seemed to suggest we were open to something if nothing else insults. It was bizarre. I haven't toured for years and the reason I stopped was not my negative experiences!! I loved touring and would not let afew nuts (or nucking futs as TREK420) refers... stop me. I stopped simply because I got in to other things like having a toddler running around. But ladies...who tour and are not in a larger group ...please think ahead and be prepared. Then you can forget about it. I have used handguns in the past but didn't carry one. I can tell you that if I started touring again, I would probably get one simply because I will not make myself that vulnerable. The best thing of course is to tour in a larger group for all kinds of reasons but most of all, it's FUN!!! HAPPY TRAILS
    Suzanne

  5. #5
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    I just hate that we have to think about this, all the what to do if's and whether or not we can ride alone...I'm skeered of guns, of faceing them of course or using them.
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  6. #6
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    Jul 2003
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    North Andover, Massachusetts USA
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    Suzanne -
    I was really sorry to hear about your awful experience, but I'd hate to have other women scared away from solo touring because of this experience. I have done supported group tours, and unsupported solo tours. My preference at this point in time is the solo tours, which are a very different experience than touring with a group of people, supported or not.

    I agree with you that folks on solo tours need to be conscious of their surroundings at all times. My most recent tours were not camping tours, but I started in the world of solo touring with camping tours, and it's likely I'll camp on tour again at some point in time. I have camped in city parks on occasion when there weren't any alternatives, but in each case when I did that I notified the police that I was there, and I had my cell phone in the tent with me - along with the phone number for the local police. And whether I am camping or not, if my bike is staying outside overnight, it is locked to a tree or a picnic table, or anything I can find...

    I did have an experience in a National Forest campground where I was directed to the group campsite. They were using that area as the hiker-biker campsite, and there was no one else there. I considered switching to the regular part of the campground, but it was no where near as nice as where I was. And I realized that the regular campground was just across a tiny stream, and that I could see tents and trailers just across from me - within yelling distance. So I stayed. That night, after I had retired to my tent I could hear a couple of people wandering through the site. I believe they were teenage boys, and they actually walked up to my tent and started shaking it. I yelled "Get out", then slipped my shoes on and popped out of the tent. They got out, and fast! (Of course, that experience is nothing like yours, which sounds like it was very dangerous. And based on that experience I understand why you are warning people.) I have also passed up potential campsites that I didn't like the looks of, preferring to ride further to find what appeared to be a safer spot.

    Could something happen anyway? Of course. But will I stay home or not ride solo just in case? Absolutely not.

    --- Denise
    Last edited by DeniseGoldberg; 08-17-2005 at 05:37 AM.
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  7. #7
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    Aug 2005
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    Stillwater, MN> which is just outside of St. Paul. We live in the St. Croix Rivervalley on 4 acres.
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    One Last Word

    I would feel really bad if anyone read my story and let that stop them from touring alone or with a group. Touring was a passion of sorts for a long time and my good experiences far out weigh my bad ones. I am not a fear based sort of person and in fact take a fair amount of risks. The reason for telling the story is that while dangerous and scary, it was certainly an adventure and I learned alot from it. Who wants to live life in a bubble. As every one has said, just be aware and be thoughtful and do what is right for you to be safe. Happy touring to all.
    Suzanne

 

 

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