Thank you all for sharing. I really improved as a rider this weekend. Though I did bonk in the last few miles - I learned a lot. I had more confidence than ever - mind you still within my skill level. I learned I need to eat better, etc. before and during rides. And overall I was proud of my accomplishment. (I love the suggestion about writing stuff on the back of my picture.) I've also learned a lot from the rider who died.

I went to work and was met with disapproving looks - because my office mates care about me and don't ride. The front page article scared them all until they learned it wasn't me or my husband who met with misfortune. I tried not to be militant about my right to ride - but I did try to explain, matter of factly - that no one will ever truly know what happened (except perhaps the driver of the truck) and that it was an unfortunate accident. No one intends to go out and get killed - but it can and does happen - in all sorts of activities of daily life.

Again thank you all for your insights. Your encouragement & wisdom are much appreciated!