That is so cool that you get to ride with your DAD. Cherish that, my dear.
It also points out a difference between older and younger men (or maybe husbands and fathers). Patience.

My dad would be just like that with me, if he were a cyclist. There is an older gentleman who leads a beginner's ride. He can smoke almost anyone, but he
won't, because he says he enjoys "smelling the flowers".
You are so lucky to have your dad to ride with. Make sure you tell him thanks!
Karen