Its over . . . now I am riding solo

[Mr. Bloom]

I don't qualify as one with an ex-Signficant Other, but I'd encourage you to:
- look into local club ride opportunities
- check out www.bikeleague.org for Road I cycling classes in your area (where you can learn basic mechanics and road safety instruction
- don't be afraid to say "hi" to someone you pass on the road.

Silver and I also have made wonderful friend through the local triathlon club. I'm not a triathlete, but I go along for the rides just because they're such great folks. Silver took up riding because of marathon induced stress fractures, but she still can do tri's.

I wish you a great transition and affirm you for not letting a relationship issue rob you of something you love doing.

[uforgot]

Good for you for planning those trips anyway! There is nothing wrong with going it alone. I have an ex, but he certainly was not interested in biking, nor are my friends, but I have made friends from the rides I do and from this forum. Just think, bike when you want, go where you want, stop when you want. While it may not be as appealing as you think, there are certainly positives and negatives to both situations. Biking also gives you a "happy" boost which will help you feel better about the things you are going through now.

I second Mr. Silver's checking into local bike clubs. Also check the states around you. An overnight trip for a bike ride with different scenery is fun. Take your camera. Make this all about YOU!