I think I took 3 months to go out on my first solo ride.

my second ride I told DBF I wanted to turn around after abotu 10K - from fear, not exhaustion.

And the thread I wrote about it has sadly dissappeared. I had commuted for years before but on an old MTB. The roadie was too small and twitchy for me too.



Keep at it and let you and those around you give yourself some slack.

now, for all the warm fuzzies I've given out, please click "dragon baby":