Quote Originally Posted by li10up View Post
I feel like I have an angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other...one telling me to help and the other telling me I'm a sucker. Which one do I listen to?
Listen to the angel. But the best thing to do - for both you and your sister - is to stop helping. She needs to grow up, and stand on her own 2 feet. And you need to take care of yourself and your DH - for all of your sakes.

CA