I agree with Veronica - you need to play around with the saddle. I would literally get numb in front - for days after a long ride. I read various posts and checked out the Terry website. Click on which saddles is best for me and they list which saddle are best based on your sensitivity issues. http://www.terrybicycles.com/

I got a Terry Butterfly and the numbness has improved. Also a good bike shop will let you try it out and see if you like it and then return it if you don't. A nice option since a good saddle can cost upwards of $100.

I've also heard some women's teams swear by the Sella Italias for women.

So many options - don't be afraid to experiment until you find what works for you.

Good luck!