Um... I'm just a science geek, but isn't what he did completely illegal? If you don't want to go to the manager, go to the police and file an official complaint. You shouldn't have to face your 'attacker' again if you don't want to. Aren't there some legal types around here? I keep hearing in your posts that you don't want to see or hear him or interact with him in any way. You don't owe it to the store or him to go to his manager first. He was out of line. Anyone with half a brain knows what he did is not acceptable (he knows it too). Just pick up the phone and call the local police/sheriff. I bet they would send someone to your home to chat with you if you like. I dunno what I would do in that situation, but I know that if I didn't want to see him again, I wouldn't!