if you think you *might* like it, find a beginner's or women's group to go with, and learn some skills. There are lots of ways to facilitate the learning curve, but thrashing with the hubby is not usually one of them. BTDT.
~Irulan
Hey, Irulun, you got strong ESP!
Frends know gud humors when dey is hear it. ~ Da Crockydiles of ZZE.