I think part of the problem where I work is that quite a number of the women at work, on the job, refer to each other and other women as "girls".

This is why I made that comment at work to an employee who works in my dept. She does it all the time. I reminded her..she's a mother of 2 adult boys..and asked her does she think of herself as a "girl"? I let that one stew in her head.

On the other head would I wear a t-shirt or cycling jersey that overtly expressed women power.. I don't think I NEED to.

Not at my age. I do know something...