I'm very sorry about Sophye. It's so hard losing our little fur friends and I think at times I mourn longer for my pets than people. What brought me comfort was planting a beautiful tree that I could nurture and enjoy. Perhaps you could plant a beautiful butterfly bush in memory of Sophye. Or make a contribution to a local kitty rescue in her memory. Another thing that brings me comfort is a selection of soothing teas and a nice little throw to wrap myself as I sit outside watching the sunsets. I think your mother would be so touched to know you share in her loss.