Thanks for your imput.

We just spent and hour and a half in the kitchen with the bike on the trainer. Made it level, moved it forward, moved it back, moved it up, moved it down. No matter which way we positioned the saddle, I still found the main pressure was on my pubic bones and not on my rear. I found myself pushing back on the saddle to the point I was almost off it to get some sort of relief.
I think the Fizik is going on ebay.