Thank you Padres. I think it is beautiful that they have that for the parents to reflect on.

My husband's grandma had one child that was stillborn and even 40+ years later it is still hard for her. I consider us very close and she talks of her three sons (only two lived on) and thinks of him often. I do not know what to say when she does mentions him but I let her talk of the pregnancy, the fall that she believes triggered the labor and sometimes she wants to talk about the delivery. I let her talk. The hopes, the dreams and the love for James still run very deep for her.