I am impressed that there is a memorial for women who lost their babies. Most people don't know how to or want to discuss this. Not very many people know that I lost a little girl a year before my son Josh was born. Although I think we handled it as well as anyone could have and it doesn't "upset" me to think about it, I always wonder what it would be like to have a daughter. It's also hard to believe it's been almost 27 years.