Hi! I'm a fairly new, clumsy rider on a hybrid too!

I have Repetitive Strain Injury in my hands and forearms so was fairly worried about pain in my hands and wrists. However, I bought some gloves with gel pads in them to reduce road vibration (these ones http://www.teamestrogen.com/products.asp?pID=24347) which have really helped. I've found riding on roads rather than trails much more comfortable on my hands too.

I heard about a friend of a friend who stuck a learner's 'L' plate on her back for a while to warn cars and bikes to give her a wider berth. I think it worked quite well and amused other cyclists!

Stick with it - who cares if we're a bit rubbish? At least we're out there giving it a go!