I know a guy who is a winner in my eyes. He goes out and races... and rarely wins, sometimes he gets lapped, sometimes he gets dropped. But he finishes and is pleased with his effort. He is just a great looser. He knows how to loose a race,... without loosing. I just admire him so much for that. I wish too to become more like him. It is not hard to feel content about yourself when you are standing on the podium,... but to feel happy and content with yourself when you did not make the podium... or came in last... or did not finish... that takes some mental challenges. Those are the challenges that we need to work on in life... and once we have learnt those... then we too can become great loosers. I am a 'high achiever' and need to work on loosing...
Cheers, Cat,