My husband doesn't really like traditional male sports either. We do watch baseball if we are home and it's on TV, but we don't plan anything around those sports. In fact, he's a pretty good baseball player, but gave up playing years ago. Same with golf. They both took too much time away.
I tried to get him into aerobics, but he hated it and there was no way I could ever play tennis with my eye hand coordination. It took a couple of years, but he secretly bought me cycling clothes, set up his old mt. bike for me, and said, "Out you go!"
Then I made him start x country ski and snow shoe with me.