If you really want to feel them, sit down on a curb or your front stoop, with your knees up by your chest. Wiggle your tush around a little. Sit there long enough on the concrete and you'll feel them just fine!

That's what you should be sitting on. I think someone said you can measure the width of them by putting a playdough pancake there on the stoop before you sit down, then get up carefully and measure the distance between them. if they're wider than that saddle, the saddle is too narrow.

Karen