Thanks for the info. Frankly, I'm a intimidated but the large group ride thing. I just think I'm going to end up over my head. Of all the rides here, I've seen, here, the coastal group seems to be the most casual, I might try one of their C class rides.
As far as my goals, right now I do light rides during the week after work when I can, 8-10 miles. Saturday mornings I do a 20 mile loop on Wilmington and Monday is my "push it" day at Hunter ( happen to have Monday's off ). Yesterday I did 30 miles alone at Hunter until the heat fried my brain. I average 15 mph overall.
I'm just a few weeks back into it but it feels wonderful and I can't imagine why I ever got out of the saddle and I think if I just ride where people ride, I'm likely to meet people. Thanks for the input - keep pedalin!