That's a rough hand you've been dealt. I don't know much other than general info about Grave's Disease but one thing is clear about any disorder and that is NOT to let anyone push you into a decision before you are ready.

From what you've said in this post, your symptoms aren't life-threatening right this second so why must the surgery be scheduled this week? You can always work to get your levels down again in a few weeks when you've had time to think.

Had you opted for RAI treatment, it would have taken months or more to work. It's a nasty disease but it's a long-haul disease. "Train" for the long-haul by whatever means calms you and gives you strength.

Take a breath and remember that is your body. Listen to it before you listen to others. Remember that doctors tend to push people around because many people prefer to be led like sheep about their illnesses. Doctors are busy and it's just easier to be dictatorial about such things.

One possibility is to call your doctor back and say you need some time to decide. If you decide on surgery, YOU choose the week it's done. Regain as much control over the care of your body and you will feel less stressed and uncertain.

When I was diagnosed with a brain tumor in 1994, the neurosurgeon was a great surgeon but an egocentric maniac. When I said I wanted to get a second opinion AND I wanted time to think, he acted insulted and claimed I would die of a stroke while I was "thinking." I didn't care. When I finally did go into surgery a few days later, I was ready to live or ready to die. I was a peace.

It's still a stinky hand to be dealt but it's your hand and you can make the process a positive journey rather than flying down a hill without brakes.

Best of luck and please keep us posted.