I think it's easy to get intimidated by reading about some of the accomplished women on this forum. But this is a very diverse group and we all ride for different reasons. Some race, some do extreme distances and some just ride because it makes us feel good. Some have expensive custom bikes and some of us have bargain bikes. The one thing we all have in common is we ride bikes.
If it doesn't make you feel good it's not enjoyable and you won't do it. You've found your ride for now. Good for you.
2008 Trek FX 7.2/Terry Cite X
2009 Jamis Aurora/Brooks B-68
2010 Trek FX 7.6 WSD/stock bontrager