So turns out once I go my actual dressmakers tape out to measure things that my handlebars are 44cm!! I had measured them before with a not long enough ruler and I guess I missed when I got 40. Had DH measure my shoulders and I'm about 36- no wonder they seem a bit wide! I think I might finally suck it up and head to the LBS to get a handlebar fitting- maybe and actual 40 wouldn't be too bad. I need my bars a touch wide so the weight is on the medial side of my bad wrist, so I guess I'll try 38 and 40 if they have them.

I'm starting to realize the LBS I got the bike at doesn't really fit everyone going out the door- I didn't even think to ask for a womens saddle. Granted since it's my first real roadbike, there was some getting used to it to figure out what was and wasn't working, but maybe the other shop that throws everyone on a trainer would have been a better idea even though I got her at essentially 1/2 off. The frame seems to be close to the right size- I did one of those online measure yourself a bunch of ways fit things and it says I'm dead on with frame size and seat tube, and pretty close with reach- it said I could go farther, but the fit thing didn't have a check button for crap wrist and no core strength My main conundrum is the original shop owes me a tune up, so it'd be easier to go to them, but they don't have the selection of the other place. Hmmmm.