Miranda,

I'm so sorry for your loss but your baby is now at peace and can run and jump and swim with all those that have already crossed over the rainbow bridge. With regard to your post about when to get another dog, the decision is very personal. You are right about the 3 choices. As for #3, what's that saying - better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?

When I lost my dog Rufus in December and then my cat Kitty Carlisle in February, I cried so many tears I didn't think I had any left. Too much loss and pain in less than two months. I said that I would never adopt another pet because I couldn't bear the pain of losing them. My position has changed. I still haven't adopted, but now I know that when the right dog comes along (and/or cat), they will choose me and I them.

My neighbor lost her yellow lab, grieved for a few weeks, then contacted her Willow's breeder and adopted Stella from Willow's Mom.
Like I said, the choice is very personal. Your heart will tell you what to do.

Sending good wishes and strength your way.