I'm so sorry for your loss divingbiker.

Ikkin - it's probably not aggression, but fear or fear-based aggression. (at least 9/10 that's what it is....) She's likely not all that keen on men... The trick is to get her to associate men with good things (he gives her treats, does her favorite things with her, etc.).

Of course, I could be way off base, but like I said, in most cases that I've seen... it's fear, not really aggressiveness.

BTW - she's a total cutie!