Just to add to the thread.

Sometimes, I feel selfish or self-conscious about my new look. I don't want it to get in the way of what I do. Yesterday, the person who does our league shirts (I'm youth baseball president in my town) offered me a XL shirt. She always fixes me one up with something a little special. I said, "No, I take a medium now." She looked at me funny, like what difference does it make? I explained to her that I worked hard for "this" and she said, "so you want to show it off?". No, I just want to dress like a woman again. Sometimes I worry about the guys I work with in the league, whether they think (or their wives think) I'm dressing too provocatively. (I'm not! T-shirts that fit with no midriff showing, no tank tops, reasonable length shorts.) They all know me so I don't worry about it too much--but I can't help that I was born to be built like a brick-house (I was when I was younger). I'm a woman, and I'm going to act--and dress--like one.

Karen