Wow Kim, what a strong person you are. I don't know if I could find that kind of strength and I hope I never have to find out.

Aggie, I don't have much in the way of advice other than to be there for you to be there for your husband as he goes through this. It's a road I guess we all eventally will have to take with someone in our lives, and as hard as it is, and sad as it can be, I would tell anyone going through it to try to find joyous moments to cling to and remember.