Yeah, all of the above.

Even if it is "A", it might not be the right time for you. Question why you're doing what you're doing and even if it IS just you, there's a reason why you're doing it. I'm curious though I don't know how many times you've told the story and if you're bored of it by now (I know I can only type things out so many times) but if you'd like, PM me.

I've had similar situations (not that I know the story but I've had the same dilemma) and it turned out the guy wasn't as nice as I thought. I think we have excellent warning systems inside ourselves but we don't always see it.