I agree - finding the right saddle for you is key. There should be no pressure on your folds when you ride. I have a Brooks Finesse on both my road bike and tandem. I've done about ten mile rides on each wearing regular clothes - that's how comfortable it is. For longer rides I do wear bike shorts.

Wallingford Bike has a six month return policy on their Brooks saddles. If it doesn't work for you can send it back - no questions asked.

Good luck in your search.

Veronica