Trayc
Looks like you've gotten some great advice. My son is only 3 so my sitch is a little different. I would like to add that because of his age, I take one night during the week (I have him during the weeks, he's with dad every 1st, 3rd and 4th weekends) for riding. I have a standing sitter and it's my time. He knows that but it's still hard for me. I have to look at it that I need my time and exercise so I can be the best mom I can. During the remaining week time when I ride, I pull him in a carrier and on the weekends I don't have him I ride off road. Not easy by any stretch but do what you can and keep riding!

Dar