Sorry to hear about the troubles you're having. I'm coming into this conversation a bit late. Too bad about the manuscript - I'd try to find a different journal.

I was in academia - was groomed for it. I found people were increasingly unhappy as I moved to bigger and bigger universities. I guess that was because of more grant pressure - who knows? I eventually chose gov't research. It offers solid funding (as long as congress passes a budget), no grant pressure, and job stability, and good salary. It doesn't work for everyone, but sure was a good fit for me.

good luck!