I confess: I love the girly stuff.

I just ordered the VeloBella team jersey.

I like the Sunflower stuff by Hincapie and TrashyCat.

The Shebeest pink polka dots (which I wear as much as I can to avoid the farmer's look on my arms).

The Sugoi Allegra.

And my commuting bike is pink.

Just had to write it down. I don't feel less powerful on the bike when I'm wearing the pink polka dots. I must admit that I'm usually the tomboy, so I guess I feel it's cool to have an occasion to wear girly stuff AND non-heels-shoes at the same time. The paradox kinda makes me joyful, makes me feel like I'm flying even higher. YMMV, of course.

Just my .02 cents (Canadian, for what it's worth).