I am soooo right there with you on this. I have not had night sweats yet, but during the day I cannot get cool enough a lot of times.
I am very groucy and snippy a lot and I hate myself this way.
I will be sitting here doing nothing and then all the sudden my back will feel like it is going to combust. Use to be that I didn't sweat, and I felt like it would cool me off it I did. Well now I am sweating while sitting and doing nothing and it still doesn't cool me off, just make me angry. I feel so angry all the time.
I do know that exercise helps, because on the days I ride, I will go all that day and maybe the next and have no flashes (and I think mine are mild copared to some) but if I don't ride for a few days because of weather or what have you, then I will have more.

I haven't been to the doctor yet, cause I still question what I have going on, and I am only 43 soon to be 44.

As women we have to deal with so much with these hormones, I swear I don't know why we have to deal with periods all our lives and then deal with this too.

Oh, well nothing we can do about it I guess. Can't change the grand scheme of things now, but sure wish I could hand it back. LOL