I took her to dinner Sat night, and I've been spending a lot of time with her. I'd like it if she'd move on (to a new and improved bf!), but of course, she's not ready for that. And, yeah, there's the issue of her not being able to trust anyone ever again (her words).

I hate that this is hurting her self esteem. She's really beautiful, successful, has everything going for her, but still, she fell for this jerk. It baffles my mind. I'm sure you're all way too good for these guys who are hurting you. Take it from me, you can do better!

I'll suggest a bike ride. She does a lot of yoga, and goes to a gym, but she needs some speed!