I just found this thread. Am so happy to have found TE and this kind of experiential advice. You all cut down tremendously on my trial and error.

And perhaps the best advice of all:

Quote Originally Posted by Biking Chick
I've had to fire those members of my Everyone Committee (as in I can't quit my job and ride cross country - what will Everyone think???)
I have an Everyone Committee, too! This was hilarious, thanks!!!

And I'm taking you seriously! There's some firin' in order....