Ahhh... the wetsuit wiggle dance in transition. I can't wait for tri season to start!
At most races I've been to, you get body marked as you're taking your bike into transition. Then, while waiting around for the race to start, you do the wetsuit wiggle in transition with everyone else. I actually love that part. Not the sqeezing my sausage butt into a rubber glove, but just the camaraderie of everyone struggling through it with you and all those pre-race jitters.

Hopefully you can find a suit that fits you soon.