Yup... those behaviours are learned behaviours... that father just gave everyone an insight into his own personality/behaviours or his partners.

The child is just mirrroring what has been modelled to him, and until someone says something to him, he won't change. And there's the rub. We can't say anything because our (Western) culture deems that the parenting role is sacrosanct and we cannot interfer.

Lets hope this child has some other role-models enter his life who can have a more positive effect on his life and set him up for social success...