Cycling couple-nutso communication

[shootingstar]

Does he realize that it bothers you that he did these things without discussing it with you?
Did he deliberately avoid discussing it with you or is he just used to doing his own thing?

Don't answer those here, but answer them for yourself. If your independance mostly works for you then that's the important thing, regardless of whether or not the rest of us think it would work for ourselves. From what I've seen of you on here you're pretty independant too. It wouldn't surprise me if there are things you've done without discussing them with him. I don't think either of you would want to end up feeling like you need the other's permission.

I will disclose 2 thing of several things I did without discussing it in advance of pros and cons with him...I got interviewed for a job in the Arctic. Yes, I was flown up to there to Baffin Island.

It shocked him...no I didn't get the job, but would have it accepted..for a few years. But I did investigate while up there, that there was only 1 rd. for cycling ...30 kms. long. The rest is tundra or snow, depending on time of year.

I did get interviewed for a job in California..but was unsuccessful...he was more amenable to the idea of visiting/living with me there vs. Arctic! I did post a photo here in another thread of the Arctic husky dogs...at the edge of town up there.

Geez, imagine what type of lives one could have experienced..if I didn't screw up the interviews. Oh well. Vancouver, BC is pretty good, except..for the relentless rain at times.

seriously..folks...MEET your TE forumites in person. They are not exactly who they are on the Internet...they are more than what they appear to be on the Internet.

[kat_h]

I will disclose 2 thing of several things I did without discussing it in advance...I got interviewed for a job in the Arctic. Yes, I was flown up to there to Baffin Island.

That is awesome. I'd love to spend a year or two up north someday.

It sounds like you guys are a good match for each other. All he did was plan a short trip to Europe. You interviewed for a job on Baffin Island.

[OakLeaf]

seriously..folks...MEET your TE forumites in person. They are not exactly who they are on the Internet...they are more than what they appear to be on the Internet.

Well of course that's true.

But it's not exactly fair to post here asking for our feedback, and then get offended when we give it.

[crazycanuck]

From my computer Shootingstar am i correct to say that it seems you're more embarassed then offended?